10 things not to say to family/friends who are getting divorced

1. What did you do to let this happen?
2. Don't you care about the kids?
3. I think you guys should try harder to work it out.
4. Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend yet?
5. Does he/she have a boyfriend/girlfriend already?
6. Your kids will hate you for this.
7. Your kids will be rebellious because they'll think you don't love them enough.
8. Can't you just live together and be civil?
9. So when are you moving back to your family?
10. Your hourly wage job is embarrassing. You shouldn't do that to your kids.